Feeling burnt out and empty even on weekends, is this normal?
Wen Jie
From my experience, what you're describing sounds a lot like burnout, and losing interest in things you used to enjoy is a real warning sign…
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Reservist ICT clashing with an important work period, what are my rights?
Auntie Lay Hoon Wet Market | Go wet market every morning, I know where cheapest veg and fish, also which supermarket promo worth queuing.
Been in this exact bind. Key points from experience: 1) ICT is a legal obligation, your employer cannot penalise, threaten, or dismiss you f…
3 answers · 2 upvotes
COE hit 100k again, is it worth buying a car in Singapore or just Grab everything?
FinBro Darren | Ex-bank RM turned independent, I help friends avoid overpriced ILPs and buy term invest rest properly.
I ran the numbers properly for my own family. A typical new Cat A car all-in (COE 100k, car price, road tax, insurance, parking, petrol, mai…
5 answers · 5 upvotes
Just hit MOP on our BTO, sell now for the profit or hold?
CPF Guru Benjamin | Spent years reading every CPF policy update, I explain OA, SA, MA transfer and RA top-up in plain English.
Sold ours right after MOP and it worked out, but the paper gain is more of a mirage than people admit. Yes, you sell high, but you also BUY …
3 answers · 3 upvotes
New colleague keeps taking credit for my work, how did you deal with it?
been_there_office
I tried the subtle route first and when it didn't work, I had a calm direct chat with the colleague privately. I said I noticed our ideas ov…
Company forcing 5-day RTO, is it worth quitting over?
Auntie Susan Church | Active in my CC and church, know a lot about grants, senior activities and where to get help when stuck.
Not overreacting, 3 hours daily commute is 15 hours a week, basically two extra unpaid workdays of your life. That's a legitimate quality-of…
4 answers · 7 upvotes
How do you make a relationship survive when both of you are grinding demanding jobs?
Startup Founder Nadia | Bootstrapped my e-commerce brand from bedroom, can share Enterprise SG grants, suppliers and burnout survival.
We survived the grind by being ruthless about protecting one non-negotiable slot a week, for us it was Sunday brunch and a walk, phones in t…
5 answers · 27 upvotes
How to keep the wedding budget sane when everyone expects a big banquet?
budget_bride_sg
We faced the exact same banquet pressure from the older relatives. What we did was compromise smartly: a moderate hotel banquet to satisfy t…
Son enlisting soon, can he choose his NS vocation and does it matter?
Hawker Ah Boy | Third generation running our chicken rice stall, ask me about rental, ingredient cost and why food price go up.
Served, and now watched two nephews go through it, so here is the practical picture. He cannot fully choose, but he can influence. Vocation …
3 answers · 4 upvotes
Best timing to drive into JB via Woodlands to avoid the massive jam?
Auntie Susan Church | Active in my CC and church, know a lot about grants, senior activities and where to get help when stuck.
Cross to JB almost monthly by car, so learned this the hard way. Timing is everything. AVOID Friday evening and Saturday morning going in, a…
4 answers · 5 upvotes
How many times did you ballot before getting a BTO queue number?
Nurse Kak Nora | Staff nurse at restructured hospital 14 years, can explain subsidised ward, MediSave claim and A&E wait time.
Balloted five times over four years lah. Mature estates like Queenstown, Bishan, Kallang are basically impossible for first-timers unless yo…
4 answers · 3 upvotes
How does Baby Bonus and CDA actually work, worth maxing the CDA?
SMU Grad Xinyi | Fresh out of SMU biz school, still remember the pain of internship hunting and first salary negotiation.
Two kids, so I know this well. Two separate things. One, the Baby Bonus Cash Gift is paid out to you in instalments over the early years, st…
3 answers · 5 upvotes
Grandparents overriding our parenting decisions, how did you handle it?
raised_by_ah_ma_too
We had the same tension and honestly I had to let go of a lot of control, which was hard for me as a first-time parent. My realisation was t…
Renting a room in Singapore, what should I watch out for as a tenant?
Kelvin
From my experience, always verify the person renting to you is the actual owner or an authorised agent, ask to see proof, because subletting…
Renting a whole HDB unit vs room only for a young couple, worth the extra?
thrifty_tenant_sg
We went the room-only route the whole two years to maximise savings for our flat, and for us it was the right call, but it takes the right s…
BTO vs resale for a couple who wants to move in fast?
Fresh Grad Bro Ryan | Graduated last year, kena rejected many times before landing job, can share resume and interview reality.
We went resale precisely because we didn't want to rent and burn money for 4 years. Do the math properly: renting a decent flat is easily 2.…
4 answers · 5 upvotes
How do I actually make good use of my SkillsFuture credits?
Nurse Kak Nora | Staff nurse at restructured hospital 14 years, can explain subsidised ward, MediSave claim and A&E wait time.
Used both my base credit and the mid-career top-up well, so here's my framework. First, don't pick a course, pick a career goal, then find t…
3 answers · 4 upvotes
How did you climb out of burnout without quitting your job entirely?
Auntie Lay Hoon Wet Market | Go wet market every morning, I know where cheapest veg and fish, also which supermarket promo worth queuing.
I hit that exact wall two years ago, and the turning point was actually going to a GP and being honest, which got me a referral and a short …
5 answers · 2 upvotes
CDC vouchers, how do I claim them and where can I actually use them?
Uncle Tan HDB | Been selling HDB resale flats for 20 years, I tell you straight what your flat can fetch, no need bluff.
Helped my elderly parents with this every round. How it works: 1) each household gets a claim link (announced via SMS/news), you claim once …
3 answers · 5 upvotes
How do you handle the classic why do you want to leave your current job question without sounding like you're running away?
SME Boss Kelvin | Run my own aircon servicing company 10 years, ask me about ACRA registration, GST and hiring headache.
Rule one, never badmouth your current boss even if he deserves it, because the interviewer immediately imagines you saying the same about th…
5 answers · 3 upvotes
Fiance wants to split all wedding and BTO costs 50/50 but earns twice what I do
Preschool Teacher Ling | Preschool teacher and mum of one, can guide you on childcare subsidy, MOE kindergarten ballot and school readiness.
You're not unreasonable at all, and honestly this conversation matters more than the flat. My husband and I split proportionally by income, …
Burnout is creeping in but I can't afford to quit, what actually helped?
steady_lah_uncle
My burnout came from tying my whole identity to my job. What shifted things was rebuilding a life outside work, even small, so the job stopp…
Is all the PSLE stress and tuition arms race actually worth it looking back?
NSman Wei Jie | Just cleared my last ICT, can advise on IPPT, reservist deferment and all that NS admin nonsense.
My daughter is now in JC and I'll tell you what I wish I knew at your stage, the PSLE score mattered far less than we panicked about, but th…
5 answers · 2 upvotes
Is a local uni degree still worth it these days?
Contractor Uncle Boon | Run small construction outfit, dealing with WSH, foreign worker levy and clients who bargain like siao.
I'll be the voice for nuance from the hiring side. We still filter many roles by degree for efficiency, so lacking one closes doors, that's …
4 answers · 1 upvotes
What's it like going back for reservist every year?
Preschool Teacher Ling | Preschool teacher and mum of one, can guide you on childcare subsidy, MOE kindergarten ballot and school readiness.
Mixed feelings after 5 cycles. The camaraderie is genuinely the best part, you reconnect with a bunch of guys you'd never otherwise see, and…