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What's it like dealing with burnout in a Singapore corporate job?

I think I'm burning out, always tired, dreading work, no motivation. The SG hustle culture makes it feel like I just need to suck it up. For those who've been through burnout here, how did you deal with it?
Anonymous asker ·Asked on 19 days ago ·375 views ·3 answers
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Anonymous contributor Beginner First-hand experience
Been there, corporate pressure cooker, dreading Mondays, running on empty. Here's what pulled me out. Step one was medical, I saw a GP because I was genuinely unwell physically from the stress, and that legitimised taking it seriously. Step two, boundaries, I renegotiated my workload with my boss, delegated, and stopped being available 24/7, guilt and all. Step three, rebuilding the basics burnout had wrecked, proper sleep, movement, and social connection outside work. Step four, honest reflection on whether the role was salvageable, for me a move within the company to a saner team helped. On the culture, yes SG glorifies the grind, but I've learned the people who last are the ones who protect their energy, not the ones who martyr themselves. Don't suck it up till you break. Get help early, set limits, and remember no job is worth your health. It does get better once you act.
Anonymous contributor Beginner First-hand experience
Burned out twice, learned the hard way. The Singapore context is real, the comparison culture, the long hours worn as a badge, the fear that slowing down means falling behind. First time I ignored it and my health and relationships suffered badly. Second time I acted early. What worked, ruthless boundaries, I stopped checking work chat after hours and the world didn't end. Using my annual leave to genuinely disconnect, not staycation-while-replying-emails. Talking to someone, a counsellor helped me see the workload was unsustainable, not that I was inadequate. And ultimately, evaluating whether the job itself was the problem, sometimes the fix isn't coping harder, it's changing your situation. My honest message, the hustle culture is not worth your mental health, plenty of us hit the wall. Recovery starts with permission to rest and the courage to set limits.
Tiger Mum Serene Beginner First-hand experience Two kids in primary school, survived PSLE once already, can share tuition and DSA strategy without the stress.
Went through serious burnout in a demanding corporate role, so I feel you. The hardest part in Singapore is exactly what you said, the suck it up culture makes you feel weak for struggling, so you push through until you crash. That's what I did and it made it worse. What actually helped, first, admitting it and stopping the self-blame, burnout is a response to chronic stress, not a character flaw. I used my leave properly for once, set boundaries on after-hours messages, and had an honest talk with my manager about workload, which surprisingly went better than feared. I also saw a doctor and got support, therapy isn't taboo, and some workplaces have EAP counselling. Long term I changed roles to something more sustainable. My advice, don't wait till you collapse, address it early, boundaries and rest are not weakness, they're maintenance. Your health outlasts any job.

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