Boss keeps messaging me after work hours, how to handle without offending?
Adrian
From my experience, boundaries here are set through consistent behaviour more than one dramatic conversation. Start by not replying instantl…
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Is a local uni degree still worth it these days?
Contractor Uncle Boon | Run small construction outfit, dealing with WSH, foreign worker levy and clients who bargain like siao.
I'll be the voice for nuance from the hiring side. We still filter many roles by degree for efficiency, so lacking one closes doors, that's …
4 answers · 1 upvotes
New colleague keeps taking credit for my work, how did you deal with it?
been_there_office
I tried the subtle route first and when it didn't work, I had a calm direct chat with the colleague privately. I said I noticed our ideas ov…
CPF LIFE Basic vs Standard vs Escalating, how do I choose?
Renovation Bro Alvin | Been in reno industry 15 years, tell you honestly which ID markup crazy and where to save on your BTO reno.
Helped my parents choose and studied it hard for myself, so here's the plain-English version. All three pay you for life, the difference is …
4 answers · 2 upvotes
What's it like being a stay-home dad in Singapore?
Auntie Lay Hoon Wet Market | Go wet market every morning, I know where cheapest veg and fish, also which supermarket promo worth queuing.
My take might differ, I found it liberating rather than isolating, but I'm quite thick-skinned about what others think. Yes, aunties gave me…
4 answers · 5 upvotes
What's it really like using the public healthcare system for something serious, is the subsidised route worth the wait?
HR Sis Michelle | 15 years in HR, seen enough resignation drama and lowball offers to know what is fair pay in SG.
Went through this with my mum's knee replacement and the subsidised restructured hospital route was absolutely worth it for us, with realist…
5 answers · 4 upvotes
Should I use CPF or cash to pay my HDB loan?
steadyfinance_bro
I use a hybrid. I let CPF OA pay the bulk of the monthly instalment so my cash flow stays healthy for emergencies and my kids' stuff, but I …
Got job offer 6.5k but current company counter-offer 7.2k, should I stay Singapore?
Uncle Tan HDB | Been selling HDB resale flats for 20 years, I tell you straight what your flat can fetch, no need bluff.
I took a counter-offer in 2022 and regretted it within 8 months. The extra 1.4k felt good on payday, but the trust was gone on both sides. M…
5 answers · 6 upvotes
Started a small home-based F&B side hustle, when did you know to register a business?
sidehustle_steady
For me the trigger to register was when I wanted to sell on proper platforms and needed a business entity, and when the money became enough …
Infant care centre or leave baby with grandparents? Torn about the decision
Preschool Teacher Ling | Preschool teacher and mum of one, can guide you on childcare subsidy, MOE kindergarten ballot and school readiness.
Went through this exact debate. We chose grandparents for the first year then infant care after, and honestly a hybrid worked best for us. W…
3 answers · 5 upvotes
BTO vs resale for a couple who wants to move in fast?
Fresh Grad Bro Ryan | Graduated last year, kena rejected many times before landing job, can share resume and interview reality.
We went resale precisely because we didn't want to rent and burn money for 4 years. Do the math properly: renting a decent flat is easily 2.…
4 answers · 5 upvotes
My partner and I have totally different money habits. Marriage soon.
CPF Guru Benjamin | Spent years reading every CPF policy update, I explain OA, SA, MA transfer and RA top-up in plain English.
Married 6 years, my husband was the spender. What saved us was the "three pots" system. Joint account for shared stuff (rent, utilities, gro…
3 answers · 1 upvotes
Dating for 5 years but scared to commit because of housing and money
Cheryl
I felt the exact same way and honestly what shifted things was separating the wedding from the marriage. We were stressing over a big banque…
With COE so high, is owning a car in SG still worth it?
Hawker Ah Boy | Third generation running our chicken rice stall, ask me about rental, ingredient cost and why food price go up.
Family with two kids here, we crunched the numbers hard. Owning a mid-range car all-in (COE, depreciation, insurance, road tax, petrol, park…
Neighbour's renovation and noise driving us mad, what are our actual options?
peaceful_neighbour
Went through this with an inconsiderate upstairs unit. First, for renovation noise, HDB has permitted renovation hours and noisy work is res…
Realistically, is Grab everywhere cheaper than owning a car in SG?
Tuition Teacher Wendy | Full-time tutor for PSLE English and Maths, can share what actually moves the grade versus wasting money.
I actually tracked this for a year after selling our car. Owning realistically costs a lot monthly once you total COE amortised over 10 year…
How to answer "expected salary" without lowballing myself?
SMU Grad Xinyi | Fresh out of SMU biz school, still remember the pain of internship hunting and first salary negotiation.
HR here. Never give a single number, give a researched range and anchor to market. My script that works: "Based on my research for this role…
3 answers · 4 upvotes
How do you handle the classic why do you want to leave your current job question without sounding like you're running away?
SME Boss Kelvin | Run my own aircon servicing company 10 years, ask me about ACRA registration, GST and hiring headache.
Rule one, never badmouth your current boss even if he deserves it, because the interviewer immediately imagines you saying the same about th…
5 answers · 3 upvotes
Is a JB day trip actually worth the hassle now?
Preschool Teacher Ling | Preschool teacher and mum of one, can guide you on childcare subsidy, MOE kindergarten ballot and school readiness.
Regular JB-goer here, worth it IF you play the timing game, brutal if you don't. My rules: go on a weekday if you can, never Saturday mornin…
4 answers · 23 upvotes
What do you all think about going to the Small Claims Tribunal for a rental deposit dispute?
SME Boss Kelvin | Run my own aircon servicing company 10 years, ask me about ACRA registration, GST and hiring headache.
Took a landlord to the Small Claims Tribunal over exactly this and won my deposit back, so real experience. It's designed to be accessible w…
Is asking for a 20% pay jump when job-hopping too greedy in Singapore?
Tuition Teacher Wendy | Full-time tutor for PSLE English and Maths, can share what actually moves the grade versus wasting money.
20% is completely normal for a job hop in Singapore, in fact in hot fields like tech and finance people get 25 to 40% when they move. Compan…
3 answers · 3 upvotes
Upstairs neighbour super noisy every night, what are my legal options?
Tuition Teacher Wendy | Full-time tutor for PSLE English and Maths, can share what actually moves the grade versus wasting money.
Neighbour noise is horrible, been there. The realistic ladder: 1) keep a noise log (dates, times, type of noise) and record audio/video with…
4 answers · 5 upvotes
Which telco for value now, worth leaving Singtel for a SIM-only plan?
Joanne
I moved to a SIM-only plan two years ago and never looked back, but do check your usage first. I was paying for way more data than I actuall…
Renting a room in Singapore, what should I watch out for as a tenant?
Kelvin
From my experience, always verify the person renting to you is the actual owner or an authorised agent, ask to see proof, because subletting…
Is topping up SRS actually worth it just for the tax relief?
Property Agent Fiona | Licensed agent focusing on condo rental, help expats and locals not kena cheated by unrealistic asking price.
Been contributing to SRS for years, here's the honest calculus. SRS is worth it in proportion to your marginal tax rate. If you're in a high…
4 answers · 3 upvotes