Partner wants to keep finances totally separate after marriage, is this normal?
We kept things mostly separate for the first few years and it worked fine because we both earned similar and had no kids. But the moment we …
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We kept things mostly separate for the first few years and it worked fine because we both earned similar and had no kids. But the moment we …
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