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Boss gave me a counteroffer after I resigned. Take it?

I took a counteroffer once and regretted it within 8 months. The raise was real but the reason I wanted to leave, a manager who overloaded me and never advocated for me at cycle, never changed. Money papers over nothing. Worse, HR now had me flagged as a flight risk, so the next promotion went to someone else. If you were leaving purely for pay, a counter might make sense. But if you were leaving for the environment, the people, or lack of growth, a raise won't fix any of that. Ask yourself why you started interviewing in the first place. That answer is your real answer, not the number they're now waving.
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How much screen time is ok for a 3 year old? Feeling guilty.

Working parent of two, drop the guilt first, it doesn't help anyone. HPB guideline is under an hour a day of quality screen time f…

Retrenched at 45, struggling to even get interviews. Is it my age?

Retrenched at 47, bounced back in five months, so it's possible but the game is different at our age. What actually moved the need…

Childcare centre or let grandparents look after baby? Torn.

We did a hybrid and it was the best of both, so consider that before choosing one extreme. Grandparents give love, one-on-one atte…

Is buying a car in Singapore with COE so high even worth it?

Depends entirely on your life stage and where you stay. When we had a newborn and stayed in a non-central area, the car was a life…

Wedding 36

What is a realistic wedding budget for an average couple in SG?

Did ours recently, so real numbers-ish. The big buckets: banquet (usually the biggest, hotel vs restaurant vs void deck changes ev…

How do you actually make sense of all the government schemes for a young family, are they worth the effort to apply?

Practical tip, everything now funnels through the LifeSG app and Baby Bonus online, so it's far less painful than the older genera…

My manager keeps presenting my work as his own to senior management. What do I do?

Been there, and open war loses every time. What worked: I stopped waiting for my boss to credit me and built my own quiet visibili…

Chronic work stress, can't switch off at night. Anyone found something that works?

If your company has an EAP (employee assistance programme) it usually includes free confidential counselling sessions, most people…

Should I use CPF OA or cash to pay HDB loan? Confused about the 2.5 percent interest

It really comes down to whether you are a disciplined investor. If you take the freed-up cash and just spend it on Shopee and bubb…

Landlord not returning my rental deposit, what can I do?

Always do a proper handover with dated photos and a checklist, this is the whole ball game and I learned it the expensive way. My …

Health 9

What's it really like using the public healthcare system for something serious, is the subsidised route worth the wait?

Do the sums with MediSave withdrawal limits in mind before deciding. MediSave can only be used up to certain limits per day and pe…

Friend showing signs of depression, how do I actually help without making it worse?

Just keep showing up, that's genuinely the most powerful thing you can do and it costs you almost nothing. My friend told me much …

Is buying a car in Singapore with COE so high even worth it?

Family of four, we own a car and for us it's worth every painful cent, but I won't pretend it's rational financially. With COE whe…

Best time to go hawker centre to avoid the queue and food not sold out?

Pro tip for the sold-out problem specifically: many hawker uncles and aunties cook a fixed amount per day and when it's gone it's …

What are the things you wish you knew earlier about switching careers at 35 in Singapore?

I'll be the wet blanket. Switched at 36 and honestly I sometimes regret it. The new field had ageism I didn't anticipate, intervie…

Confinement nanny worth the $3-4k? First-time parents deciding.

Compromise option we did: mum helped, but we also hired a part-time confinement helper for daytime cooking and baby care a few day…

Health 3

Polyclinic vs private GP, when is each actually better?

CHAS card changed the game for me. If you qualify (based on household income), you get subsidies at participating private GPs, so …

My P6 kid is so stressed over PSLE, is this normal and how to help?

Talk to her form teacher. Schools are actually quite aware of PSLE stress now and many have counsellors. My son's teacher noticed …

Why is it that Singapore weddings cost so much?

Let me be practical and reassuring. Yes SG weddings are pricey, driven by expensive hotel banquets, the social pressure to go big,…

Got job offer 6.5k but current company counter-offer 7.2k, should I stay Singapore?

Do the actual math beyond base pay. Compare total package: AWS, variable bonus history (ask around, don't trust the promised numbe…

Upstairs neighbour super noisy every night, what are my legal options?

Mediation actually worked for me, and I say this as someone who went in convinced it was a useless waste of an afternoon. Having a…

Colleague keeps taking credit for my work in meetings. How to handle?

Talk to him privately first, once. "Hey, I noticed the analysis I did came across as yours in the meeting, can we make sure we cre…