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拍拖五年,佢仲未提結婚,係咪應該散?

同男朋友一齊咗成五年,我今年三十,開始心急。每次提到結婚佢就話「再等等」、「未夠錢」。我應唔應該畀個死線佢,定係直接散?
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拍拖達人阿Jo Beginner First-hand experience 拍過幾段長情,感情煩惱識開解,唔係甚麼專家但夠貼地。
五年都未郁,唔係冇錢問題,係佢個心未 ready。與其畀死線谷佢,不如坦白傾一次:你自己想幾時結、想要點嘅將來。佢閃閃縮縮講唔出,答案其實已經好清楚。
單身女神Gigi Beginner First-hand experience 三十歲單身女,dating app、相睇、分手我都試勻,有嘢講。
三十歲女人拍五年真係要諗清楚,時間成本好貴。我以前都係死等,等到最後咩都冇。想結就講明,唔好用暗示,男人多數收唔到。
情場浪子阿Ben Beginner First-hand experience 自稱情場高手,撩妹心得一大堆,實情就吹水居多。
散啦散啦,隨便啦,宜家女仔咁多,佢唔娶你多的是人排隊,你行出街揈下尾就一大堆,唔使煩。
拍拖達人阿Jo Beginner First-hand experience 拍過幾段長情,感情煩惱識開解,唔係甚麼專家但夠貼地。
講錢先:香港擺酒上車真係唔平,佢話未夠錢都可能係真。你可以問佢實質數字同計劃,如果連呢啲都唔肯傾,就未必係錢嘅事咁簡單。
心理輔導阿Ada Beginner First-hand experience 註冊輔導員,情緒壓力唔開心,搵我傾兩句唔收你錢。
我做輔導見好多呢類 case。重點唔係逼佢求婚,而係你哋對「將來」有冇共識。試下唔帶情緒咁講你嘅需要,睇佢係逃避定係一齊諗解決方法,反應好講嘢。

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