In-laws want to be too involved in our marriage, how to set boundaries?
The single most important thing: the boundary must come from your husband, not you. If you push back on his mother directly, you become the …
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The single most important thing: the boundary must come from your husband, not you. If you push back on his mother directly, you become the …
Switched to an MVNO SIM-only plan two years ago, never looked back, but let me give the honest nuance. The MVNOs (the budget brands) actuall…
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My daughter is now in JC and I'll tell you what I wish I knew at your stage, the PSLE score mattered far less than we panicked about, but th…
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Went through almost the same thing. First, keep everything in writing, WhatsApp and email are fine as evidence. Send a firm but polite writt…
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We went BTO and I'd do it again, but only because we had a place to stay while waiting. We stayed with my in-laws for the build period, whic…
Switched to an MVNO two years ago and never looked back. The digital-only telcos like the ones riding on the big networks give you 100GB-plu…
We were in your exact spot and chose resale specifically because living with in-laws was straining our marriage, and no flat is worth your r…
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