Partner wants to keep finances totally separate after marriage, is this normal?
clarinet_lady
We kept things mostly separate for the first few years and it worked fine because we both earned similar and had no kids. But the moment we …
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Do I need to register with ACRA for my small side hustle?
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New parents, what government schemes and payouts should we actually be claiming?
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What are the pitfalls when preparing your kid for PSLE?
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What's it like working in the civil service in Singapore?
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Is CPF OA to SA shielding still worth doing before 55?
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Is an Integrated Shield Plan rider worth it or am I overpaying?
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Retrenched at 45, struggling to even get interviews. Is it my age?
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Cheap but memorable staycation ideas in Singapore that aren't overrated?
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Employer withholding my last month salary, what are my rights?
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Why is it that Singapore weddings cost so much?
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Hotel banquet vs restaurant vs void deck wedding, which did you regret or love?
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My kid got PSLE score 192, which secondary school is realistic?
Data Analyst Wei Ling | Work as data analyst in a bank, can advise on breaking into data, SQL upskilling and which cert actually useful.
With 192 (AL) you are in a solid band lah, but branded schools like the top IP ones usually need low single digit totals. Honestly for that …
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Is buying a car in Singapore with COE so high even worth it?
Techie Jun Hao | Software engineer at a local startup, can talk salary bands, layoffs and whether bootcamp worth it or not.
Depends entirely on your life stage and where you stay. When we had a newborn and stayed in a non-central area, the car was a lifesaver, no …
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COE expiring, renew for 5 or 10 years or just scrap and rebuy?
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Renting a room in Singapore, what should I watch out for as a tenant?
Kelvin
From my experience, always verify the person renting to you is the actual owner or an authorised agent, ask to see proof, because subletting…